Get It On Over The Phone: Sexting 101

While we’re mostly stuck at home waiting for the COVID-19 pandemic to pass, our libidos may be crying out for some outside attention. One safe solution is sexting – sending sexual messages back and forth with the goal of all involved getting off.

Sexting doesn’t have to feel awkward or fake, like some people think! There are plenty of ways to spice up your messages without asking “what do you want?” over and over again. Read on for some tips to up your sexting game.

Talk it Out Beforehand

Like all kinds of sex, chatting about likes and dislikes before getting down to business is crucial! Maybe you’re about to be messaging with someone who loves to take the lead, or maybe they prefer you drive the story. It’s better to know first before both of you are left feeling awkward!

Make Sure It’s The Right Time

You wouldn’t want to be sexting while you’re in the middle of an important meeting or test (okay, maybe you would, but you probably shouldn’t!). There’s nothing more awkward than starting things off only to have your sexting partner say “I’m actually hanging out with my parents right now…” so ask if it’s the right time to send some naughty texts, or create a standing date when you both know you’re free!

Be Descriptive

No one likes a boring story! Use everything you’ve got in your descriptive arsenal to make a sexting session much hotter. Instead of “I like when you go down on me”, try “I really love the way you kiss your way down my body, teasing me until I’m begging for your mouth.” See the difference?!

Share Photos, Videos and Audio (If You’re Comfortable)

Visual and auditory messages can accentuate what you’re typing out, so use them – if you’re comfortable with it! Take a couple sexy photos, record yourself moaning, try a video. It might feel awkward the first few times, but the response you’ll get from your partner will be worth it. A safety tip: don’t send photos to people you don’t trust, or use an app that has a snap-and-burn feature (like The PRSNLS).

Make it Personal

Instead of using generic lines, say something about what that person does that turns you on and gets you off. For example, if you’ve sexted with them before, call back to something they said that made you really hot. If you’ve hooked up IRL before, recall a specific moment and tell them what you loved about it.

Start Some Fantasy Talk

Maybe you’ve never done anal sex in real life, but it’s something you want to try – sexting is a great way to test the waters with yourself and a potential partner! Sexting is a soft way to try out new fantasies. You’re still in complete control but have the chance to see how talking out a specific scene makes you feel.

Have Fun!

Sexting shouldn’t be stressful, so take a deep breath and get into it! If you’re looking for a sexting partner, sign up for The PRSNLS and see who strikes your fancy.

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